How I can I Increase My Husbands Sex Drive?
Sep 08, 2010 in
Health FAQs
I recently stopped taking birth control and my libido has skyrocketed. I think about sex all day long & by the time I get home I am ready to totally ravage my husband. He, however, doesn’t have the insatiable sexual needs that I now have & it is beginning to be a problem in our marriage.
I am looking for ANY suggestions, herbal remedies, or whatever that would increase his sex drive so we can be more on the same level.
(He is also on anti-depressants which have somewhat suppressed his desire).
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16 comments
Dona on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
He’s a man so he must be getting it somewhere. I’d check his emails
dana on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
Cialis
Ggit Mojo on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
give him a bj and get a monster truck and ride over his head.
GET IT, SEX DRIVE?
he’ll experiance a big boost in libido 48 hours after this, only if he survives though :)
Mark Will on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
masturbate on webcam
omar on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
change your sex position every-time you feel you or him that the orgasm coming out..that helps.
e w on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
If he’s on one of the SSRI drugs, like Paxil or Effexor, it can destroy his sex drive and ability.
I don’t know why doctors keep prescribing these drugs, as they have obvious sexual side effects.
What’s more depressing to a male than losing his sexual ability? In the long term, I consider these antidepressants to be very destructive.
He could ask his doctor to switch him to Wellbutrin, or another of the medications that don’t have the sexual side effects that the SSRI’s have.
In addition, circumcision also affects males’ sexual ability. The long-term effects of circumcision, aside from the initial neural and vascular damage, diminish sexual sensitivity, function and ability.
Once circumcised, the glans and surrounding tissues begin to keratinize, which continues throughout a male’s lifetime, slowly and inexorably diminishing sexual feeling and function.
It’s one of the major reasons for the high usage of Viagra-type drugs in the USA.
The rate of circumcision has fallen to about 33% as of 2009 in the USA, as more Americans are finally realizing what the rest of the world knew all along; it’s wrong to force genital mutilation on infants.
Damaging a penis damages a male’s sexuality, also.
Circumcision is a fraud and a hoax.
A foreskin is not a birth defect; it is a birthright.
ERIC
Jesse Woods on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
just rip his clothes off and give him a blow job
then he will probably get into it
jeff on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
yur question wiill attract the attention of idiots who will try and be funny about a real problem…
yu need to talk to your husband to explain your feelings, then talk to your health care professional about the effects of the anti depressents on him… if you need more orgasms you dont need anyone to tell yu how to do that…but i suspect the reason for the increased libido is tied into yur need for a child..which is different!!
good luck
Kyle Bonnyman on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
I’ve heard horny goat weed works…check with your doctor first.
MrJohn on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
After all the advice here, I can tell you: You love your husband so try to ask him, what´s his biggest sexual fantasy is. I hope it will help you both.
sashtou on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
A clue is in your question / statement > He is on anti-depressants which have somewhat suppressed his desire <
If there are any problems with his Blood Pressure, that can be a cause too. However, you don’t state ages of either of you, so it’s only guesswork here.
It wold be a good idea for a talk with your family Doctor.
On a personal note. I had a girlfriend who was something like being in your boat (the change of a drug regime), and personally, ”It was bloody scary” ~ all that rampant female flesh and hormones ready to fire off at a moments notice.
She could have taken on a football team, and THEN have been ready for me little ol’ me.
Sash.
ibjimubu1 on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
I feel more sorry for your husband. How can any real man "pass" on such a voracious sexually charged partner is beyond me. BTW… you now have the same sex drive as I do.. shame we don’t know each other…I have other suggestions if you are seriously interested in learning about them..
Robert Yates on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
Try prescription pills, or herbal supplements, and/or kegel exercises.
Prescription pills are very expensive, but effective. They have a lot of side effects.
Some herbal supplements chemically function very similarly to popular prescription pills with less- if any- side effects. The pills that contain Arginine and Horny goat weed can increase blood flow to the penis and release growth hormone from the pituitary gland. Tribulus and Zinc will help boost testosterone and DHEA levels. The combined effects of these supplements can give you fuller, firmer, and more frequent erections. Increased DHEA levels will boost his sex drive. I recommend looking into Spartan Blend because they actually put the real ingredients into their capsules- no proprietary blends(reference 1).
I also recommend Kegel Exercises because they are easy and you can do them anywhere (reference 2). Kegel exercises are good because they can help men achieve stronger erections and gain greater control over ejaculation.
bandit_60 on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
you don,t say how old he is because once a man get,s so old then he can,t do what he use to do. medication can put a damper on his sex life especially depression pills and high blood pressure pills. i know being a older man i don,t have the desire i use to have. you need to have him see his dr. and maybe he can prescribe something for him.
Djej Mhamar on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
leave him without sex for a while
Ginlins on September 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
There are few natural remedies
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